Once we open our eyes to a new day, let us not forget that, from that moment forward, we have choice.
We have choice in how we experience ourselves and our world. We have choice to hold on or to let go of that which burdens us.
Recognising that free will exists is what is right every day. Free will means the choice to walk our paths as we desire, to experience life as we wish, to love ourselves and others openly and unconditionally.
Today, I have woken up to the wonders of the mind, to how quickly a single thought can change an entire outlook, to how a single action can be a blessing for the day, to how consistent gratitude can reshape the heart and free the mind.
What about you? How have you woken to see the world today? What have acknowledge to be right in your life? And for what are you grateful?
My face today. 🙂
Just a brief note to check-in about the Challenge. All is well. The things for which I am grateful and consider right are the new relationships that I am developing and the new habits that I am forming.
For the most part, what is right is my simple state of being: in myself, in the moment, in connection with others.
Some Words of Encouragement
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.” – Rainer Maria Rilke
Until Next Time,
So, I’ve made it to Day 3. 😉
Let’s begin with what was right about yesterday:
- I did my daily meditation/prayer
- I went school
- I wrote some and read some
- I spoke with my mother
- The weather was far better than expected
- I went to bed at a reasonable hour
- I received some good news
- I enjoyed being outside in nature
What about you? What was right in your life yesterday?
In case you’re wondering about the video above, it is what I’ve been listening to in the mornings for my daily meditation and stretches–perhaps you might enjoy it, too.
Words of wisdom from by Vishnu TinyBuddha.com on learning to love yourself.
Below is an excerpt from the article.
“Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi
We’re so busy waiting for someone to love us that we’ve forgotten about the one person we need to love first—ourselves.
Ironically, it was when my ten-year marriage fizzled that I began the innermost process of self-discovery about love.
While discouraged and saddened at the crumbling of our relationship, I began to explore love more. How had it fizzled? Why had we stopped loving each other, and what had happened to our love?
To My New Followers: Welcome to my blog! I am very happy and grateful that you decided to follow me on my journey and hope you will share yours with me as well. 🙂
This is just a brief post about a challenge that I have decided to begin tomorrow. First, however, I just wanted to note that I am one week away from completing my 30 Day Prayer/Meditation Challenge–I really struggle with sticktoitiveness and so I am really proud of myself for coming this far and also for my recent decision to continue the Challenge indefinitely.
I think sometimes we just come across something that works with who we are and are necessary for where we are on our path. I am glad that the daily practice of prayer/meditation has been helpful for me in clearing my psychological, spiritual and physical space and in paving the way for the new challenge I’ve decided to do.
So, what’s this new challenge?
It’s a challenge that I’m calling: Acknowledge the Right Of Your Life Challenge. Perhaps I should make a hashtag out of it for Twitter and spark others to share in the Challenge.
So, what’s the goal of this challenge?
Simple. Every day, for the next 30 days, I will write, at least, one thing that is right (positive/awesome/good) in my life.
Why do you want to do this challenge?
Because, from what I understand of myself and looking at the world around me, it is an easy thing to get caught up in what is wrong (negative/awful/bad) with our lives.
So, I’ve decided to challenge myself for the next 30 days to identify what is working in my life. It’s simply another step on my path toward self-acceptance and self-actualization. I hope you will join me. 🙂
If you do decide to join me on this challenge, send me a message or comment here and let me know!
And remember, there is always a path to be found…
Until Next Time,
“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”― Lao Tzu
I’ve begun writing another chapter in my life. Perhaps this chapter ought to be called “Sticktoitiveness”. Why? Well, I like the sound of the word, it makes me smile, and…
Sticktoitiveness is defined as a “dogged perseverance; resolute tenacity“, which has reemerged as a theme/personal quality in my recent life.
It’s one of those many things that you may have had to cast aside, in one way or another, as you learned how to live with a chronic illness, such as fibromyalgia. It’s also something that, in my opinion, you should never cast aside when you are living with a chronic illness, such as fibromyalgia.
The 3 Ds
Living with a chronic illness, means living with constant internal and external changes. The changes you undergo will create havoc in self-perception/self-image, in relationships, in goal-setting, in employment, in pacing achievements, and in even cooking pasta (I threw that in just to make sure that you were still paying attention). 😉
In other words, having a chronic illness can mean taking life moment by moment and doing your best to prepare for whatever shifts occur–it’s not an easy task.
I’ve done my share of explaining and lamenting the challenges of having fibromyalgia, so that’s not what this post is about. If you’re interested in learning the depths of the difficulties, however, you can look in my archives.
This post is about why you, both people who are living with a chronic illness and those who are a part of their lives, must accept and live by the 3 Ds.
What are the 3 Ds? No, this isn’t about multiple third dimension. This is about accepting: disappointments, decisions, and determination.
Disappointments, Decisions & Determination
The reality is that, when you are living with a chronic illness, you will face setbacks more often than not. They are a part of the package. They are also the first D, i.e., disappointments.
You will experience disappointments like never before… Seriously.
Especially, if you attained the status of ‘responsible adult’, then disappointments (particularly in yourself) will begin to take on a whole new meaning, because others may be dependent upon your well-being for their survival.
Decisions are an everyday part of life, and are the second D.
Decisions, when you have a chronic illness, can no longer be a straightforward and static process. Why? Because decisions can never really be wholly independent from your (unknowable) physical status.
This leaves the third D, and the most important, determination,
If nothing else, I have come to understand that you must remain determined in seeing your goals through to the end, whatever they are and regardless of your chronic illness.
Yes, having a chronic illness can drag you down, cause you to despair, and generally make living feel less than worthwhile I am not denying that. Certainly, too, there are goals that may need to be altered or even utterly discarded.
Still, I am stating that if you focus on your goals with “dogged perseverance” or “resolute tenacity”, in other words sticktoitiveness, then your goals can serve as a way out of the darker aspects of having a chronic illness.
No matter what, stick to accomplishing whatever goals make your life have meaning, make you happy, and make you feel sane when everything else about you feels less than so.
Until Next Time,